How to SHOW Sincere Service

I teach 7 Traits to CHANGE Your Life and Your World. It is a book I wrote after having gone through many of life’s toughest challenges and felt that there could be a different way to face

them. In the book I give you the tools that will literally change your life if you will just follow them. These 7 Traits seem simple and can be, but they are profound and when you understand the complexity of each of them in a new light, you will see dramatic changes as you implement them daily. If you have not yet received our 7 Traits video series as your complimentary gift, I suggest you do so! It is easy and it is free! Just go to www.allthingspossible.biz and join our community! Let me give you a simple example:

Many years ago in 1995, our world was turned upside down with the shocking news that our oldest son had a Brain Tumor the size of a lemon. He was just nine years old. With this news, our son was taken from an MRI machine to a bed in the ICU unit in the hospital. We were then told there was no way to explain why this child was even alive due to the water on his brain!

The brain tumor would require immediate surgery and a six week hospital stay. Radiation would 

begin the following week each day for an additional six weeks.Chemotherapy would start before radiation was through and it would take nine months to complete the chemotherapy regimen prescribed.

This began an unbelievable trip through everything from despair and anguish to fear and disbelief. It created chaos and stress while racking up unbelievable medical bills and 180 nights that my son and I slept at Primary Children’s Hospital in eleven months!

This was a time of extreme overwhelm and frustration, yet at the same time we were able to experience peace, joy and love in a huge way as we implemented and lived two of the traits I teach. As we lived our lives from Gratitude and as we learned a new way to SHOW Sincere Service it began to create a way for our own nightmare to become livable. We were able to see beyond ourselves and embrace doing for others. Our heavy weight was lifted! I share our signature story of a Mylar balloon and our willingness to do Service, no matter what was going on for us and how our lives were changed by this all the time when I am speaking and even when I do trainings, because it had such a profound effect on our own lives. It did make all the difference in the world!

This was not the end of our trials, but rather more like the beginning. This was our first fight with cancer for our son Jesse but not the last. In fact, the second fight came at the age of 25 for him. He broke his back and 10 weeks later was diagnosed with another brain tumor. This brain tumor was committed. It grew back twice! He had to have 3 brain tumor removal surgeries in 5 months. In just seven months total, Jesse endured

a broken back, three brain tumor removal surgeries, loss of hearing due to complications from surgery, complete loss of sight in his right eye and radiation! Yet, while enduring this horrific time in his life, and being in the biggest hole you can imagine, he was serving others, lifting others and was grateful for all that he had. You can see him in this picture, in a deep hole, yet…he is happy.

Happiness really is a choice and it is easy to choose when you are filled with Genuine Gratitude and Sincere Service!

It was definitely through these tough challenges that I realized the significance that Sincere Service could have and how it shows up in all that we do. Even when we are not faced with horrific trials, perhaps just the everyday challenges that we face each and every day, I could see how sincere service impacted our lives.

I teach that there are two types of service; Simple Service & Sincere Service. Let me explain what I mean by putting all service in these two categories.

First, is Simple Service: This is something that we do daily. It is expected, even required. We have signed up for this. Every person does some kind of simple service. Let me give you some examples: you choose to be in a relationship such as marriage, which means you choose to serve that person regularly. You choose to be a parent, so you have chosen to serve that child for the rest of your life! You sign up or agree to take a community or church position or be on a committee. It will come with service. You have accepted a job, which comes with a considerable amount of service in working with co-workers, as well as customer service! Simple Service includes the following:

Second, is Sincere Service: Sincere Service is service that you feel deep within your heart. You are changed by performing this service and are a better person for having done it. It raises your character. It is defined by superior service to others. It is doing something for someone else that they cannot do for themselves. It is treating a customer with excellence because it is what is best for them—it is in their best interest. It is putting our own interests or agendas aside. It is showing gratitude for your client because you genuinely do care about them. It is being genuinely happy for others’ success. It

Isn’t this what we all want?

With all of this said and done, I break Sincere Service down with the acronym SHOW. I know that when we SHOW Sincere Service, it goes deep into our heart and becomes part of us. It creates you to become the person you want to be. It improves relationships, creates bonds, brings abundance, heals you, creates loyalty and respect, empowers you, teaches you and raises your character. It simply changes you.

This is how I break down the acronym SHOW:

Sacrifice: Your time, talents, and abilities. Look for ways to serve easily. Prepare yourself.

Humble: It’s really NOT about YOU! We must humble ourselves and be in the service of others.

Operate from your Heart: Do not overthink it. Come from a space of feeling.

Willing: Be willing to do for others, to put others first. Be willing to meet the needs of others.

It may not jump right out to you how I define these words into creating a different outcome, just by seeing the words and a brief definition. Watch this 15 minute video to see what I mean by these words and the action behind them. I break it down and detail it out quickly and easily for you to see what I mean by them. If you are just willing to do things a little differently and implement this concept on a deep level, you will see dramatic result!

It is time to SHOW Sincere Service on new levels! Watch the episode today and learn, “How to SHOW Sincere Service” and how it will impact your life!